Hello again.
So one of the greatest things about Peers for Pride is how
our discussions have altered my views on language.
Oh, language. It kinda sucks.
Yes it is super necessary. I mean I guess I could draw my
thoughts, but trust me when I say NO ONE wants that. I draw great sea monsters
though… But as I was saying, language causes problems. PfP has made me consider
how our construction, perception, and application of language spawn difficulties.
I mean, are we taking back the slur “fag” or not? I’d prefer not too, but some
people are really riding that train.
So that example is a bit more controversial, but after
having a conversation with one of my friends I realized there are complications
with a word most of the Queer community identifies as. Actually, that word is
“queer”. He said that he didn’t feel comfortable being classified or
identifying as queer, and that it was actually pretty upsetting for him to hear
the word.
I don’t know if anyone else had the joy of experiencing the
exceptionally homophobic game “Smear the Queer”, but it is still very alive and
well. The way the game works is a group passes around a football that someone
has to catch. Whoever is in possession of the ball is deemed the queer and must
avoid being tackled, or “smeared”, to the ground.
This was a popular game that I was fortunate enough to
frequently experience in middle school during athletics. My friend mentioned
that hearing queer being thrown around by those in the LGBTQ brought back
memories of these types of things. He recollected having the word used as a
weapon off the field, too. On the bus. In the halls. At home.
I have met a few other individuals who feel similarly about
the word, which is problematic, as it has been coined as this umbrella term. So
what does this mean? Honestly, I have no idea. I think it does show just how
complicated the language we use can be, and a word some use freely to identify
as is not easily transferable to someone part of that same group.
I don’t have an answer to give on how to navigate the use of
that word with people. I think it brings forth a lot to consider though. It
also never hurts to ask someone what THEY are ok with.
Until next time,
Heath "Yasss Gaga" Fowler
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